Sunday 17 September 2017

Two for one- personal twin pregnancy experience part 2

My journey of pregnancy was full of roller -coaster ride, 10-11week had gone as like before ones. But 12th week was horrifying for me in 12th week my marriage anniversary came, we decided just we two will  celebrate it at home only. As per celebration we just cut the small cake followed by traditional Indian food. Having a small celebration just two of us on our big day we had pay heavily for it. I slept on 10a.m and at 5.p.m I was not feeling good. My stomachache started and soon I started vomiting. I thought it is normal because from last few weeks puking twice a day has become routine. But it didn't stopped after that I somehow managed to sleep but at 6.10 I vomited again then on 6.45 again. My man and I was really worried what is happening and I was felling fully exhausted and it is taking my whole strength and m felling pain also in my stomach.
Because till them my stomach has become empty, We thought it will stop but it is becoming more severe at 7.30 we rushed to hospital in emergency and the doctor available there is a physician, as the day was Sunday all other doctors are off the duty. Then the doctor available there contacted Gyno-1 but she failed to contact her( don't know why sometimes doctor don't show importance to the patients condition, yes I agree they too have their personal lives, still they themselves has chosen such profession that demands your maximum time).
Coming back to our topic, then we contacted Gyno-2 and she told us name of two injections ( stemetil and asoprazole)
Which according to her I need to take them as soon as possible. Meanwhile all this is happening my condition keeps on deteriorating I continued vomiting empty stomach. I was just puking saliva type stuff but that puking itself was taking my whole breath out and my full energy too.
Then I thing just because of my babies luck we got both the injections available in hospitals only.After taking injections I just rested and slept for 2hrs.
This whole ssituation we both have gone through was not less than a nightmare for us. I personally was feeling very low and also blaming myself why I am having babies I was just feeling out of the world that why God has choosen me for all this trouble. On the other side I know the happines, joy, love I am going to have. My both the Gyno always says your trouble, pain and difficultlies will also get double with your whole parenting journey.
My man also has gone through a lot in that few hours. Firstly, mentally is my wife fine and my babies should be ok they should not get little bit of harm. Secondarily, the physical exhaustion from home to hospital and hospital to home too many rounds plus to be always there to give me support when I am puking and to clean all the mess created by me. Lastly, after this all he have to give me mental support that don't worry everything is fine and nothing will happen.


Somehow my first trimester ended with a lots of ups and downs.


Second Trimester

Puking machine


The puking problem has not stopped following me in my second trimester also. Everytime I puke it was like insanely sore muscles and a certainty that I have  torn something internally. I personally don't like to have muh medicines because of aftereffects it can have on my babies. But if, u feel that your situation is not coming under control, without having medicines. Than you can go for it as per prescribed by your Gyno. But it will be good if you can avoid it or limit yourself with one tablet a day. You can also do these following things

1 Eat small meals on regular intervals.
2 Take proper rest.
3 Don't ever try to suppress your hunger.
4 Drinkwater between your meals
5 Try to take breakfast as sion as possible
6 Try to drink lemon water ( it helped me a lot)
7 Try to have cold food as compared to hot ones
8 Stay Hydrated
9 Track your nausea# so you can get alert at that time)
10 Take pregnancy Multivitamins on time

Gastric problem

Second Trimester was quiet smooth 13th-15th week's has gone with very ease. During 16th week I started feeling severe heartburn, that too in night it becomes worse whatever I will eat heartburn keeps following me. If by mistake also I have taken little spicy food that night I can't sleep, no antiacid in the world can work for me. Due to the fear of this I developed fear of food. But food is your life and in this case I have to feed and have to help to develope two more lifes. And this heartburn continued with my whole pregnancy.

Inorder to avoid gastric problem
Firstly-
Avoid excess of food items which are gastric in nature like potato, cauliflower, breads, butter etc and also avoid too much spicy food because spicy food can lead you to some serious trouble.
Secondly-
You can go with mild anti-acids and if you can go for the syrups then it is best because syrups are mild and don't harm your infant and if you are having gastric problem you an easily go with syrups and medicines twice a day without giving it much- to- think. That severe heartburn really spoils your day and sleep too so you must take care of it.


Breathing problem

In 19th week I started to develop breathing problem. This problem also gave mw a panic feeling. I can't ladown for more than 20mns in a span. If I tries to do so I found it harder to breathe. I contacted my Gyno-1 she told me it's nothing to worry just cause I was carrying more than 1 baby. Size of my uterus is increasingly fastly and is becoming big which is pressuring the diaphragm,which as a result is causing me breathing problem. But breathing problem always kept me high on breathe if I do little bit of extra work I would just become short of breathe.
For breathing problem you can follow this:


1- Change Position as soon as you feel breathless move to the position you find it easier to breathe.

2- Don't Overdo listen to your body signals and whenever you feel you are exceeding your limits try to slow down.

3-  Practise Good Posture try to keep your shoulde're and upper body straight.

4- prop some extra pillows while sleeping just to keep your upper body little high.

Urinary Tract infection

Somehow may be due to travelling I get caught by UTI during my 23rdweek. UTI that too during pregnancy seriously I headphone through the hell due to it. Extra discharge, burning and pain there with that cute baby bump is really getting difficult for me. My Gynos has prescribed me vaginal agents. Because during pregnancy we should've having medicines orally because directly or indirectly it can harm baby. According to my radiologist I got caught by UTI so easily because  I do have a lot of excess  fluid in my amniotic sac. Don't know exactly whatever may be the reason but I will call and say all the would be mother's please do whatever you want to do but try to protect yourself from vaginal inflections during pregnancy.


Ultrasound time

We have gone for our next ultrasound on 18th week I was waiting very eagerly to meet my babies ads when I saw them I just got so excited as usual but was nervous at the same time. Doctor told us this month ultrasound is very important as far babies development is concerned.
Doctor then told us both the babies are doing fine and is growing well. I too is now able to track them without much difficulties. Just wants to know everything about them

And yes how we can forget that cute  belly bump. Your belly which carries your babies helps to nurture them and if you are pregnant with multiple babies in 4-5 months only you will have belly like nine months singleton mother. You will be started to look like a big giant creature.

With all these sweet pains of having my world in my hands and trying to be brave anyhow I completed my second trimester.



Wednesday 6 September 2017

Avika- when we went to Ganesh Chaturthi celebration

Hie guys as you all know India is s country which is very rich in heritage and it's integrity is in its diversity. Due to this we Indians get lots of reasons and festivals to celebrate. Nowadays Festival of Ganesha chaturthi is running. 


GANESH CHATURTHI FESTIVAL:-


Ganesha Chaturthi is a ten-day Hindu festival celebrated to honor the elephant-headed God Ganesha's birthday. He is the younger son of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati.

Ganesha is known by 108 different names and is the Lord of arts and sciences and the deva of wisdom. He is honored at the start of rituals and ceremonies as he's considered the God of beginnings. He's widely and dearly referred to as Ganapati or Vinayaka. 
Recently me and my family had also visited a celebration of Ganesh chaturthi conducted by our local community. Where worship of Lord ganesha is held in large scale. Little games for kids and adults are also there which is followed by a food carnival.
Me: babies come inside, we have to get ready
Arnav: no, I want to play more I don't want to go anywhere
Avika: me too
Papa- come soon arnav-avika
Arnav to avika- let's go they will not let us play, they always wants us to do things according them. Ughhhh

Inside the home
Babies start playing again

Mummy: come both of you just wear your new clothes babies, you both will look cute and beautiful in it
Avika: yeahhh mommy my new-new frock, make me wear it fast (Avika is fond of New clothes)
Avika: wow I am looking so pretty (checking out herself in the mirror)
Arnav: I always look smart, high

Babies got ready, now it's parents time to get ready

Mummy and Papa is getting ready

Crying voice
Avika To Arnav : why you pushed me now take this SLapp
Arnav: crying wait I will show you  Slap
Avika : slap again
My man: whom you have given birth, they don't look my children I was not so mischievous.
I and my man- u look after one I will look after other.
This is how everything ends, with twins both the parents are 24*7 busy.

All get ready and leaves for the celebration

Avika: mummy see the lights, I just want to hold them.
Arnav: wow I am out again, so many people to see.
Arnav-today only loves to be always out and to have car or bike ride.
Then we all went towards the food.

Anav: so much to eat
Avika: nd so much crowd, I dun Lyn crowd
Arnav: wow Papa it seems so tasty, takes one bite huhhhh itz so spicy.
Avika: hahaha but I love spicy food so what, if it shakes you.

Arnav: I want something sweet
Avika: ahhh see this sunrises I know them. Oh yess they daily comes to our park. I daily use to do hello to them.

Papa brings something sweet
Arnav: uhnmm so tasty
Avika: hmmmm itz ok ok

Then crow's starts to grow everyone gets busy in eating and enjoying .
Big dustbins are placed in the middle for throwing your used plates and all stuff.

Arnav: AVika see what big buckets are these
Avika : yes, and see evry1 is throwing garbage in it
Arnav: wait see what I do. Mummy one bite plz. And then spits ing the dustbin
Avika: itz how much to hang on these so called dustbin.
 Mummy Papa got fed puny saying them to stay away from it.
 Then
Arnav: see dog I will catch him, run
Mummy: arnav-today where are you, c you lost in crowd

Avika: wow so much to eat, run, (starts dancing in middle of the ground) m loving it.

Arnav-AVika leave the hand of Mummy and run see as m doing
Avika: no, they will become angry
Arnav: no chance mummy papa are so old to run,behind us
Arnav and AVika then runs and Mummy Papa tried hard to catch them.

Avika: cry cry cry. I want to go home, no matter who all are watching me but I will cry.
Arnav-I will run everywhere possible.


Evryone watching them, naughtiness of little ones.
Mummy and papa becoming mad

But it is also a fun and hard part of parenting.
You have to understand the wishes, curiosity, mood. And at the same time, you have your patience, energy and mutual understanding get tested.



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